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February 2008

Porn Nation

Press Release

"Porn Nation - The Naked Truth" features Michael Leahy, author, speaker and recovering sex addict. It's the critically acclaimed, 90 minute multimedia-based lecture and Q&A that explores the impact living in a hypersexual culture is having on today's college student. As featured on ABC's "20/20" and "The View", Michael shares the amazing story of his struggle with sexual addiction and his family's battle to survive what Oprah Winfrey calls "America's #1 addiction." Featuring captivating video segments and interviews with experts and everyday people who share their personal struggles with out-of-control sexual behaviors. Students are challenged to consider the "bigger questions" about porn that nobody's asking: "How is my exposure to porn and our hypersexual media effecting me and my relationships?" Michael concludes by providing clear action steps any student can take now to set themselves up for success in relationships. A message every student needs to hear!

Pornography is affecting the vast majority of college students,  and not only men. It leads to broken families, loss of jobs and worse. Yet, the university officials cannot come to an agreement on whether pornography is dangerous and mental health professionals cannot agree whether sex addiction is truly an addiction.

We decided over a year ago to pursue having Michael Leahy come in to address this issue which is hurting the students on our campuses including the students within our movements. He has spoken on hundreds of campuses around the country, talking not just about the effects of pornography but also sharing his own story of defeat and divorce before coming to Jesus Christ and finding renewal and redemption.

In the course of getting ready for this event it became clear that if we do not bring up this subject on campus, nobody will! We pursued a number of organizations and university departments to co-sponsor the event, knowing that other CCC movements who have done this outreach have had good success in getting these groups to partner with them. One after another women’s groups, the Sexual Assault and Prevention Committee, and other groups we thought would want to highlight the dangers of this media turned us down. The reasoning: they could not agree whether it was really a problem or they simply did not want to take a stand.

Not only did we face that rejection, but we also faced opposition to our publicity and even had posters torn down in some buildings on campus. It seems that the enemy did not want this subject brought up, let alone have the potential for students to find freedom from their addiction to sex.

On Tuesday, February 12 at Eastern Michigan and Wednesday, February 13 at the University of Michigan we held this outreach event. 300 students came at EMU and around 450 came at U-M, in spite of a popular event that draws over 4000 students happening at U-M the same time —we were unaware that it was going on until it was too late for us to change.

Half way through the event Michael gave students a chance to leave before he shared the spiritual solution to this problem, in order to respect their desires if they came not knowing there would be a spiritual component. At EMU most of the students stayed, and at U-M all but 20 students stayed for the spiritual part of the program in which Michael clearly shared the gospel and gave students a chance to pray a prayer with him to receive Christ into their lives. At EMU 19 student indicated a decision for Christ, while 5 did at U-M. Praise God!

We will have a chance over the next few weeks to follow up these students as well as students who want to talk more about this issue.

 

Sorry, I did not give most of you more heads up on this event! I meant to write about it prior to the event, but failed to realize that the date of the event would require me to put it in last month’s newsletter. If you did not get an email alert for this event from me please send me your email so that I can add you to our update list.

 

Kids' Column

I am 8! I got to have a slumber party with a few friends. We had a great time. Mommy was gone to a conference for 4 days and our substitute teacher didn’t have much work for us to do—maybe Mommy can go away more often!? I have a feeling that we will get to make up that school time when Daddy is gone to spring break.

I have been enjoying swimming lessons. My friend Kristy is in my class. Mommy isn’t allowed to stay and watch any more so she doesn’t know if I am spending more time talking to Kristy or listening to my teachers.

 

While Mommy was gone I was a big helper with Caleb. He is so fun to boss around! Sometimes he doesn’t like my help. I get to go to speech therapy every week now—my therapist is really nice and we get to play on the toys when I am done. And it is exciting because now I have homework and I really like that!

 

I am glad Mommy is home. Daddy was fun but I sure do like my Mommy. I hugged her for a long time when she got home, just like Lindsey did. Daddy took us to a children’s museum and to McDonalds and lots of our friends were there. It was so much fun!

 Caleb

Nate Headed to New Orleans

I am leading a group of students to New Orleans for spring break starting February 23. Though it is out of the news, New Orleans is still very much a broken city and much work needs to be done. Christians have been and will continue to be the key volunteers in helping to rebuild this city. We have over 50 students going from U-M and EMU. Pray for safe travels, fruitful work and the conversations we have with non-Christian students coming with us.

 

 

 

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